Episode 55 – Stephen Dargan: Back to the Human, At Work and Beyond

Episode 55 – Stephen Dargan: Back to the Human, At Work and Beyond

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Episode 55 – Back to the Human: At Work and Beyond

With Stephen Dargan

About this episode

In this episode of Career & Spirituality Conversations, I’m joined for the second time by workplace wellbeing specialist Stephen Dargan, returning to deepen a conversation that first inspired many listeners around what truly allows people to thrive at work. (Episode 4 – Happy Workplaces, an Unstoppable Movement)

In his previous appearance on the podcast, Stephen shared powerful examples of forward-thinking organisations, the role of trust and autonomy, and how removing fear and over-control creates environments where people naturally do better work. This follow-up conversation builds on those foundations, exploring what the future of work might require if we take human-centred wellbeing and sustainable performance seriously.

We talk about why stress at work never stays contained, how autonomy and trust change the way people show up, and why returning to basic human principles may be the most progressive move organisations can make. Our conversation touches on the four-day week, AI as a potential catalyst for systemic change, and what happens when work supports life rather than competes with it.

At its core, this episode is about stepping away from performance culture and back toward presence, connection, and work that allows people to function well — at work and beyond.

About Stephen Dargan

Stephen Dargan is the founder of Happy Workplaces and has spent decades working with organisations, leaders, and educators to improve wellbeing, engagement, and culture at work.

His work focuses on creating environments where people can do their best work without chronic stress, over-control, or burnout. Stephen is also the creator of the programme Wake Up to Wellbeing – Human, Not Superhero, supporting leaders and school principals in redesigning work and education systems around human needs rather than unrealistic expectations.

Stephen’s approach blends psychology, wellbeing science, leadership development, and a deep trust in people’s intrinsic motivation to contribute meaningfully when the conditions are right.

Episode Takeaways

  • Why stress at work spills into sleep, health, relationships, and overall quality of life
  • How autonomy and trust consistently lead to better engagement and results
  • Why measuring work by hours is outdated, and what to focus on instead
  • What the four-day week reveals about productivity and human capacity
  • Could AI accelerate a shift back to human-centred values
  • Presence, connection, and community remain essential in any future scenario
  • What it means to design work that supports life, not just output

Ready for a more efficiently collaborative workplace?

You’ll find this conversation useful if you’re questioning current models of work, exploring the future of work beyond productivity metrics, or interested in creating environments where people can thrive, professionally and personally and for the greater good.

About Stephen

Stephen Dargan spent over a decade managing teams before turning his focus to how motivation, behaviour, and culture shape the way we work. For the past 12 years, he has worked with leaders and organisations to create happier, healthier workplaces that support engagement, reduce stress, and improve performance.

He is the founder of Happy Workplaces, has hosted four Happy Workplace Ireland conferences, and presents the WOW at Work podcast, where he explores how organisations are transforming the world of work for the better. Stephen also delivers his Wake Up to Wellbeing – Human, Not Superhuman programme across the education sector and is currently rolling out the Happy Leadership programme in Ireland, through his company www.happyworkplaces.ie

I Am No Longer Stuck in Old Cycles

Before working with Julie, I felt lost and disconnected from my own story. Certain events in my life felt confusing, and I kept repeating the same negative patterns without understanding why.

Working with Julie helped me make sense of these experiences and see my journey with new clarity. She supported me in releasing what no longer served me and in reshaping both my behaviors and my patterns of thinking.

Today, I feel grounded, clear, and fully responsible for my life. I am no longer stuck in old cycle, and I am consciously creating my path forward. This work has been deeply transformative, and I am truly grateful for Julie’s guidance.

Magali L. | France

Episode 54 – Roy Vella: The Human Edge in the Age of AI

Episode 54 – Roy Vella: The Human Edge in the Age of AI

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Episode 54 – The Human Edge in the Age of AI

With Roy Vella

About this episode

In this episode of Career & Spirituality Conversations, I had the pleasure to interview “grizzli-stricken” globe trotter and fintech expert Roy Vella, about the intersection of AI, spirituality, and human connection at work and beyond.

We explored how curiosity fuels innovation, how collective intelligence can make teams more effective, and why presence—not performance—is the true measure of success. Roy also shares how his company is reimagining meetings through AI-driven collaboration analytics, helping leaders create smarter, more conscious workplaces.

About Roy Vella

Roy is a deep-tech strategist, futurist, and CEO of Next Collab, a platform that uses AI to measure and improve meeting effectiveness. With a background in business and law and decades of experience across continents, Roy blends technology, psychology, and collaboration science to help teams work with more clarity, purpose, and humanity.

He describes himself as curious, extroverted, and enthusiastic—driven by a belief that giving and learning are two sides of the same coin.

Episode Takeaways

  • How curiosity shaped Roy’s journey across technology, AI, law, and global adventure
  • Why presence and attention are the real foundations of meaningful leadership
  • What spirituality looks like without religion — the “energy between people”
  • How collective intelligence explains better teamwork, better decisions, and better meetings
  • What Roy learned about identity and belonging from his time living in Cameroon
  • How feedback from introverts changed his entire approach to communication
  • How his company Next Collab uses AI to transform meetings into shorter, smarter, more intentional collaboration

Ready for a more efficiently collaborative workplace?

You’ll find this conversation useful if you’re curious about using AI to improve teamwork and productivity, if you’re seeking to build spiritually intelligent organizations, blending technology and humanity for real impact, and learning from curiosity, connection, and collective wisdom.

About Roy

Roy’s spent most of his career leading growth in fintech organizations, from founding one out of Stanford (that was acquired), then starting 3 new lines of business at PayPal (that is, Merchant Services, Travel and Mobile which brought him to London) to working with a wide array of enterprises large and small throughout EMEA. Now back in the States, Roy’s focused on deeptech (AI/ML, Big Data, Climate, Energy, etc.) ventures, that is, impressive core science that needs help commercializing. More details and further background are obviously available at LinkedIn.

It Felt Like this Job Offer Had Been Created During my Work with Julie

I was experiencing deep unhappiness in my work place, a culmination of a long period without clear guidance and leadership followed by a Manager whose unpredictability and inappropriate behaviour was causing my body to experience huge levels of anxiety and stress. The stress and anxiety was affecting my sleep and my ability to enjoy other aspects of my life. I had some tools to counteract the stress, however I was beginning to feel overwhelmed and was loosing confidence in my ability to complete tasks that were well within my capability. I had made big sacrifices to get this job 7 years previously and had successfully been promoted and thought I would stay in this job until my retirement in a few years.  I was on the verge of handing in my notice even though I had nothing else lined up to fall back on.

Then I I reached out to Julie and did her ‘Aligned’ coaching program. I wanted to get to a place of leaving the job not because I was running away from it but had outgrown it and to have made steps to move to a new career doing more of what I am passionate about.

As the program was approaching a conclusion I was offered a totally unexpected transfer to a completely different type of role in a more convenient location. It felt like this job offer had been created during my work with Julie as this role has many of the ingredients that Julie and I had focussed on in our work together. Now I have a very supportive manager and I am working in a role which is more soul aligned and I am back to enjoying my work and the challenges that comes settling into a new role in a different location. I am sleeping better and waking up energized and looking forward to the adventures of the day ahead. I would highly recommend working with Julie.

BW | Ireland

Episode 53 – Howard Longstaff: Recruiter by Chance, Entrepreneur by Drive, Coach by Choice

Episode 53 – Howard Longstaff: Recruiter by Chance, Entrepreneur by Drive, Coach by Choice

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Episode 53 – Recruiter by Chance, Entrepreneur by Drive, Coach by Choice

With Howard Longstaff

About this episode

What happens when a recruiter who spent decades matching executives to top jobs decides to slow down, “smell the roses,” and dedicate himself to coaching?

In this episode of Career & Spirituality Conversations, I sit down with Howard Longstaff, a former chef, business builder, and international recruiter, who now brings his wisdom to guiding others through career crossroads, imposter syndrome, and the search for clarity.

From his spiritual grounding in nature and fishing, to his candid take on the future of recruitment in the age of AI, Howard shares both practical strategies and heartfelt reflections on life, work, and meaning.

About Howard Longstaff

Howard Longstaff is a retired recruiter turned coach, with over 30 years of experience in building and running recruitment businesses across London, New York, Los Angeles, and Auckland. Today, he focuses on coaching individuals at career and life crossroads, supporting them in navigating imposter syndrome, stress, and uncertainty, while building clarity and resilience. Grounded in a spirituality rooted in nature and presence, Howard also offers specialised CV, Linkedin and interview support through his “CV Surgery” and academy programmes.

Episode Takeaways

  • How Howard “fell into” recruitment by accident and built multi-continent businesses
  • Why behavior and cultural fit matter as much as skills and experience in hiring
  • The impact of AI and ATS systems on today’s job search (and why bullet points can hurt your CV)
  • How spirituality and time in nature (gardening, fly-fishing) shaped Howard’s clarity and resilience
  • What to consider if you’re wondering whether entrepreneurship is really for you
  • Why everyone, from athletes to executives, benefits from a coach

Ready to jump into a career transition? 

You’ll love this conversation if you’re looking for clarity, are hesitating between business and employment, and seeking perspective and a grounded wisdom on navigating change.

About Howard

Howard Longstaff has spent over 30 years moving between hotels, technology sales, global recruitment, and business consulting, building and selling multiple companies along the way. After leading recruitment firms with offices across multiple countries, he shifted his focus toward what had always been at the heart of his work: coaching and mentoring people at crossroads. Drawing on decades of interviews, leadership, and business building, he brings a sharp acuity for reading people — not just their skills, but their behaviours, motivations, and untapped potential. Today, his work centres on helping individuals find clarity, balance, and purpose in both career and life.